my male nepenthes (i'm pretty sure it's a male at least) has just opened its first flower today. if anyone wants any pollen then let me know and i'll send you some. this is my first nepenthes flower, so i'm not really sure what to do with it other than cut the flowers off when someone wants pollen and also storing the pollen in the refrigerator for later. what do you all recommend doing?

correct me if i'm wrong about its gender:

in return, i would appreciate some seed if you are able to pollinate the plant.