Laura, very true. however i am really not kid person, atleast not day in and day out. if i decide i want another child besides my two step daughters(who i will be attempting to legally adopt after the first of the year), its going to have to be of my own making. with very few exceptions. but we have a couple years to decide that. Darla will be 35, hmmm better watch myself here, several years down the road? [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile_m_32.gif[/img] give the way chances increase for problems after that we wont be pushing that envelope to far. at the moment there are no plans for another.