My 2 cents worth on cheating, well if he hangs out with said girl and holds hands or even kisses her and said woman dont know this is going on well thats cheating, if he has sex with her and says oh it didnt mean anything, thats cheating if he gets said girl prego thats cheating, Any of these things happen in my relationship with JR SHAME ON HIM!! He not only will be kicked to the curb but i will re-arange his face let alone his life style.. And for the girl hes cheating with well i feel sorry for what i will do to her, most girls or guys know that the person there having this said affiar or sex relationship with know that the other person is either married or involed with another. Thats what makes it even worse, the girl or guy thinks HA HA i took him/her away from you. Getting drunk is the worst excuse or even getting high as a excuse is wont get you anywhere. My oldest just went thru a very nasty break up due to she was working while her boyfriend was having a nightly affair with the blond bimbo 3 doors down only to come home one night to find a nasty bye bye note im with so and so. Not only did he hurt her badly but also use to beat her taking his frustrations out on my daughter while having a grand ol time with the bimbo few doors down. He even got the blond bimbo prego befour my daughter was dumped. I know he prays everyday that he will not bump into me as it will be his last..