it's really hard not to get caught up in the whole mess of competing to get into the best school. my younger sister and I both are going to the University of Rhode Island, and in our respective senior years of high school, seemed like everyone was going to an Ivy League or some expensive private school. but we're both extremely happy at URI, and making the most of our educations. instead of the ultra-competitive atmosphere at an ivy league, we can relax a little and really pursue our interests. plus we'll be graduating with only a few thousand dollars of debt...don't even want to IMAGINE what kind of loans I'd have to take out at a private school!
I know you're stressing out like mad right now, Brett, but try to believe us when we say this is FAR from the defining moment of your life. If you get into your first choice college, awesome! if you don't, that's fine! you may find you're absolutely happy at another school, and if you're not, kick butt freshman year and transfer.
good luck!!!
- Emily