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Thread: Do you ever just want to die?

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    Go into the airforce they treat you better,
    I know what i have to say doesnt help much, but ive moved aroud sence Jr High. I never really have had many friends till my mom retired from the airforce... I had to find my self, i went through alot of crap, I was on drugs and suicidal... im better now and realize that life is to great to waste... This is what has helped me out, Sort out where you are in life, try to understand how you feel where you are, and Talk to close friends, it helped me alot.

    Im in Highschool all this stuff took place from when i was 12-15...

    As much as you might not care im going to say it any ways. God has a plan for you, you just need to ask him what it is, he wont say it to you directaly but he will show you some how... Just as him!! I hope you figure things out..

    Cheers

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    Yes, I've been there. I think many people have to one degree or another. But as cliche as it may sound, things DO get better. It is always a shame when someone takes their life when if they could have just stuck it out a little longer, they'd see the light at the end of the tunnel.

    One of the best resources a person has are friends. Doesn't matter if its "in person" or online, just talking and sharing with other people and letting them know how you feel can make a big difference. Although family is usually good support too, sometimes its your peers who can make the most difference. And also counseling and perhaps medication can help a lot too.

    Do not think you are alone in how you feel. Open up and share and you'll probably find others who know EXACTLY how you feel who have beat the feeling and gone on to become happier individuals.

    Don't let a rough period in your life become the reason to end it. For everything bad, there is something good to balance it out. Sometimes you have to look for it...but if you do, you'll usually find it.

    In the last five years, a good friend of mine has been through: back surgery; mouth cancer (non-smoker) and the removal of half his mouth; mouth reconstruction surgery and skin grafts; being falsely charged with molesting his daughter; cirrhosis of the liver (non-drinker) and being told he can't get a liver transplant because he had cancer; a serious skin ailment; constant kidney stones; the recent death of his 23 year old son (burned to death in a car accident); and he just had a tube stuck into his kidney and is wearing a "pee bag" while he awaits more surgery. And that's not even all of it. And he remains a good, kind, giving man who STILL has a sense of humor. I look at how he has handled five years of the most incredible sadness, grief, pain and stress you can ever imagine and my problems look mighty small...

    Don't let problems and/or depression take away from you the good things life has to offer. There is beauty and joy in the world even if things get dark and you can't always see it. **Its still there.**
    "Fox terriers are born with about four times as much original sin in them as other dogs." - Jerome K. Jerome

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    I agree with plantakiss

    You think youre problems are so horrible... but their are really small they have small problems...

    And plantakiss youre friends probebly the strongest person i think i know of...

    Im still prayin for you man...

    Cheers

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    Yeah...he really amazes me. The worst was losing his son...that was just a couple of months ago. They were very close. After all he's been through...just when you think there isn't another bad thing that could possibly happen to him...it did. He's having a hard time dealing with the death of his son but he can still smile and laugh and lend a helping hand when you need it. I have great admiration for his strength.
    "Fox terriers are born with about four times as much original sin in them as other dogs." - Jerome K. Jerome

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    You all are right. I thank you all for the concern about someone you really don't know. I'll get through it all. Who else will look after my animals and plants? Thanks again.

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    You are very welcome. People can be closed minded to understanding a hopeless feeling, it's sad for the people who do need encouragement. Many people may read these posts but not have anything positive to say. It can be hard to relate to people when you speak and everything you hear back seems like it's your fault or you can always control what you think and feel. You are more than a steward of plants and animals. I'm glad they make you happy and God has given them to you. You are a human being made in the image of God as His word says. All peoples of the world have been made in His image. Jesus said when you seek me with all of your heart then you will find me. He also said, the words I speak to you are spirit and life. God Bless you Jason.

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    JMurphy97, hang in there and don't give up. Or as I say, "Don't let the B******s win !
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