Just to clarify things, my girl did not spend the night. This happened during the day in just four hours. I dread to think what might have happened to her if she slept over and he had access to her. In talking about this with other parents, we have heard more than one story of girls refusing to go back but not talking to their parents about what happened. I'm glad that my daughter had the guts to tell me about this and I will be far more careful about where I let her go.