By the way, Christians are not to condemn sinners they are to preach the word of God. Now, since the word of God condemns those acts(fornication,etc.), a Christian cannot win(win, as in being seen as not judgmental) anyway unless the person hearing the word of God believes Jesus can save them from those sins. You see first the person must understand what sin is(realize they are lost and need Him), then you can preach the saviour Jesus Christ. That is the Good news (Gospel) that we can be saved from eternal damnation in true repentance through Jesus sacrifice. If they reject His salvation, it is because they love their sin more than God. Election is unmerited, God has chosen who will be saved and only they have ears to hear.