Sounds like you have it all worked out, and you're getting off on a good start. Your father of course will be invaluable. I bet he's got some awesome stories!
ROTC is a great program. I had several students that I instructed that were in the program while I taught them, and every single one of them got pilot slots in the military: 2 are now Apache pilots, one is an A10 pilot, one F18, one F15, and one C-17. I'm jealous of them lol (I couldn't meet the vision standards for the military).
Best of luck - just being so confident in what you want to achieve is a great advantage.