ok im not one to post family things, especially ones like this, but i need advice or some other peoples views on a certain matter.....
So...my mom is in a lot of pain, and they dont know whats been causing it....
for 30 someodd years this has been going on....
The doctors have said MS, Lupus, Cancer.......Various forms of Porphyria (is what they believe now) and some other crap....
she had 2 days of no pain finally the other day
but then yesterday morning, she sends out these text messages (mind you in 2900 miles away in florida, with my gf visiting family)
And the texts read
Goodbye Kris
Goodbye Taylor (my gf)
Goodbye Krissy (my sister)
Goodbye Contessa (another one of my sisters)
and to my step dad
Michael, this is goodbye, i love you, youll find happiness.
Ok so after i got the initial text saying goodbye, i thought it was a joke since half an hour earlier i sent her a message saying the power was out from a transformer blowing up, and she knows i dont handle heat too well....
Well, I try and call her, no responce
i text her, no responce
a few minutes after i receive my text, Taylor gets the text saying goodbye.
So i get a little freaked out and worried and call my stepdad
Mind you, my mom has been staying in a hotel room for the past couple of weeks because there is mold in the downstairs bathroom that has been making her sick, so they are pulling the walls out right now and repairing the damage and cleaning it up.....
But anyway, So i find out these texts have been sent to other family members
We cant get ahold of her, she wouldnt answer her cellphone, or her hotel phone....
So we begin to worry more
we call the actual hotel and ask if they could check, but the clerk replies with
"We saw her leave in her car half an hour ago"
Well, ok crap...now shes doing what shes done before to my other family before i was born,
trying to run away (atleast thats what it sounds like)
I sit and think...
and i remember, HEY!!! the car has onstar and a GPS system....
I contact my step dad again, and tell him
he calls onstar,
but now since it seems she could be suicidal, shes a threat/danger to herself or others.
So, the police get involved (we had no choice at this point, we were just trying to stop her from doing something stupid)
Michael cant leave the house because there are people there pulling the walls out for the mold
So, a few minutes later
They find her. eating a snack on the side of the road in a car, in the middle of a pass between Seattle and Spokane.
She is now screaming that Michael betrayed her....and that he should have just let her go
Well, i texted her later on after this saying i needed to talk to her
she replies
"Stay in florida, and do not come back"
Well, uh
I have my gf here with me, i kind of have to come back...im not letting her fly on her on for one
for two, Michael owns that house, he said i have a place to stay there......
Today, she is still raging angry, and screaming Divorce at my stepdad, and betrayal and all of that jolly good crap.....
Do you guys think we handled it properly?