mcmcnair, I may just take you up on that if I don't figure out what this one wants soon! I did repot it with more like 70% sand, 30% peat and it perked up for 2-3 days, even got a few tiny drops of dew, before it went downhill again. After reading around for a bit I thought that maybe the soil was getting too hot (in a smaller, brownish pot in full sun, perked up after a repot which would have been nice, cool soil for a bit) and repotted it again in a larger, white pot, 50/50 peat/perlite, top water daily. It's still not coming back that I can tell but I'm going to give it awhile.
In other news another kind member shared some divisions with me!! So my growlist has grown to include a dente flytrap, some sarracenias, and a Florida Giant sundew. I promised pics and haven't gotten around to them yet but I swear I'll get them up here tomorrow come hell or high water!!