I've discovered that my plants do best when I ignore them. They adjust to conditions and go on quite nicely--they only get in trouble when I try to help them along with "improvements" or "feeding." VFTs, neps, sundews--it's all the same. I've taken a very hands-off, low-maintenance approach as a result, and it's worked out.
Anyone else had this experience? Or am I just a plant-killer who shouldn't own any green thing?