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    Mom has wrote the above about leaving her alone completely.
    Should I listen to her? I am very, very upset. I have been crying a lot.
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    Starman,
    It may seem like the end of the world, but it's not. There is an eternity of time left for you, and this is one isolated incident. When we advised you not to smother her or be to aggressive, what we didn't say was that you shouldn't put too much importance in the results, because more often than not, friendships don't work out like we think they will.

    Always learn what you can from events like this. For example, remember what you did that she responded positively to, and what she responded negatively to. Try to figure out why that happened in each of those cases, and apply that to the next time (and there will be MANY next times.)

    Most of all, however, it's important not to let drama and emotion get the better of you. There is almost nothing socially that you can do right now that will have permanent repercussions. Although it's not fun that she hasn't responded the way you would have wanted, this whole saga hasn't even spanned two weeks.

    My advice would be to think about how to enjoy the rest of the summer. Get youself a social group. Don't fixate on one person, get to know a group of them. Apply what we've said (in a more casual manner) to get some people to hang out with. The rest will take care of itself.

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    I wont enjoy the summer, I never do.
    I have no friends at all. This is why I never enjoy the summer.
    During the summer holidays, I am always bored and lonely.
    My goal was to be friends with her by the summer holidays,
    all the hope of that is completely gone. If I was friends with her,
    I wouldnt be bored and lonely. But, that is not going to happen.
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    That's what I'm saying! You need regular, "hanging out" type friends, not only a full-bore girlfriend! Once you make a couple of casual friends, you'll end up meeting their friends and a whole social group will open up for you.

    It's not a one-time deal. There are legions of potential friends out there. Keep at it! You have to do it eventually, so you may as well start now. You can't allow yourself to be bored and lonely.

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    Shall I listen to my mom then?
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    Well, for the most part, yes. However, there's nothing wrong with saying hi when you see her. Just don't pursue her, if you know what I mean.

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    I hope you didn't tell her that you are lonely and need a friend. That alone could kill it.

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    why dont you have any friends? that's the real question. what keeps people from wanting to be your friend?

    are you like, the new kid or something?

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