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Friendship

  • Thread starter Starman
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  • #61
Its in-service day.
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Shame, I was looking forward to carry on making friends with her today.
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I have nothing to report, since Im not going to school today........
Oh yeah, do you guys have advice for making friends OUTSIDE of school
with the girl?
Thank you,
Dino
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  • #62
Same as inside school...why be different? Just be polite, ask questions (shows you're interested in her), listen to what she has to say and respond to her. But that's a two-way street. She should do the same. Maybe talk about your favorite music? Talk about a recent movie or ask what movies she's seen lately. Ask what hobbies she has...and tell her about your plants too. Most people are interested in that because they are a unique kind of plant.

Most of all...relax! Don't get too stressed over it.
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  • #63
I think I know why she still likes me.
I wrote her a letter.(No, not a love letter)
Before I wrote it, she used to stay away
from me. She doesnt stay away from me
now. I cant remember everithing I wrote,
but I basicly said is that I was sorry if
I have offended her, and that I wanted
to be friends basicly.
Was this the right thing to do?
Like I said, after I wrote the letter, she
stopped staying away from me.
I think it was the right thing to do,
but what do you guys think?
Dino
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  • #64
Oh, thank you for the advice, PlantAKiss!
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But, will she get freaked out if I knock on
her door? Thats what Im REALLY worried about.
Or, I could go for a walk, and I could hope that I
run into her........
 
  • #65
Oh yeah, when do you people think
its a good time to give her my adress
and phone number? I want to socialise
outside of school asswell........
 
  • #66
Goodness man, Your gonna give yourself an aneurism. If you do go to her house, don't chicken out otherwise it looks like your being weird, like stalking. It's just a chick. Show enough interrest that she knows and if it trips her trigger she'll persue it.

I always hated when a girl "just wants to be friends"
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Be calm
Be cool
Be confident/ not nice guyy (unless she digs that)
Confidence is everything. When you're not confident, it comes off like a question, like you're not sure of what you're saying and if you're not sure of what you're saying then how could she be sure of it either? Just like with plants; don't wanna ask someone about a plant they aren't sure they know anything about.

CONFIDENCE man,
Joe
 
  • #67
darn that word sensor
[b said:
Quote[/b] ]Be confident/ not nice guyy
It's supposed to be c0cky as in full of yourself.
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Joe
 
  • #68
Wow, thank you for the advice, superim..........oh god, a bit of a typists nightmare, no offence or anithing. What do you mean by "not nice guy?"
When shall I give her my adress and phone number?
Thank you,
Dino
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  • #69
It was supposed to say c0cky as in full of yourself, but editer turned it into nice guyy. Ya know cause that word also has an alternate meaning.
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I would wait till you get up to daily social interactions and then drop the line like Hey give me a call sometime (gotta give your phone# at this point).
As for the address I would wait till phone conversations are a regular. Giving your address too early could seem too presumptuous (sp?)

Just talk to them and sometimes they'll talk back. (boy do they talk back
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I noticed you have a critiquing (sp?) habit. Don't do that to her, shes not likely to think its very cool.

I know my typing is all my own
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Joe
 
  • #70
Hmmmm, she lives about 2/3 streets from where I live! I often walk my dog
in the street where she lives!
Hmmmm, Il wait a few days-a week before I ask her if we can exchange
phone numbers. What if she doesnt call when I give her my phone numbeer ?
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  • #71
[b said:
Quote[/b] ]Yes, and I can never 'break the ice' that sorta thing
I didn't even think you HAD ice in Singapore!
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Lasik is da bomb. Turned my life around. Before it, I could get up in the middle of the night to pee without putting on my glasses... I'd miss!
 
  • #72
by the way dont stalk her
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starman

only kidding but i have got a thought go take your dog for a walk at different times so you know what time she usally gose out
 
  • #73
Hmmm, the dog is on a behavior program, we must ignore him untill
July 31st. He is only allowed iin one room, but he is allowed in other rooms,
but for 1 hour only. He is NOT allowed to go for walks untill July 31st.
Ill probably go for a walk on my own, or, I might go with my grandma.
Or, I could hide round the corner from her house, then I could
appear when she goes outside. (That might be stalking though)
 
  • #74
might be stalking
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that is stalking
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im going to get the cops
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  • #75
Don't hide man, that is odd. Then she surely won't call you.

Joe
 
  • #76
your serious about your dog?
 
  • #77
I am 100% serious about my dog.
He doesnt behave at all.
No, she wont know Im there, when she comes outside,I would come round the corner, and I would pretend that I was just "walking by"
Oh yeah, I play the flute, would it help if I played a song to her?
 
  • #78
I personally wouldn't go by her house yet. But thats just me. Because even if it appears to her that youre not stalking her..... if you go about it the way you say, thats still stalking. I would be patient and just wait it out till you see her in the mall or something.

I know that'll be hard, but I think it would be best.

Hmmmm as for the flute? Unless youre trying to go out with her, that'll just freak her out. Friends don't make songs for each other unless they want to be more than friends.
 
  • #79
Oh, O.k, I suppose it is stalking.........
Before I wanted to be her friend, she saw me walking
my dog outside of her house, she popped out and said hi.
I wont play my flute to her then.......
 
  • #80
Well, the dog thing I think would be okay, especially if you've done it before and all. But hiding and waiting till she comes out will be suspicious. But that would mean you'd have to wait till the dog training stuff is over.

It'll work out
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