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Friendship

  • Thread starter Starman
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  • #141
Yeah but, why take her to the cafe so early? It would make more sense to do it after we are friends.
 
  • #142
because that's a great way to get to know each other! buy her a latte or something and talk about school.
 
  • #143
And if she reacts badly to my question about going to the cafe?
I think she will react very badly to it, so I dont want to do it
just yet.
 
  • #144
WOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SHE WANTS TO GO TO THE FUNFAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SHE WANTS TO GO TO THE FUNFAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She has to ask her mom first though........
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She was friendly towards me today!!!
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I will be giving her the details of the funfair trip tommorow.......
 
  • #145
Hey Dino! Good news there! Now, whatever you do, don't blow it! She's now friendly with you, so I'd back off just a little bit. People keep saying it, but it needs to be repeated: DON'T SMOTHER HER!! Just let things develop as they happen. Read her reactions all the time, and adjust your behavior accordingly.

It sounds like you're doing great so far. Don't worry about forcing a date to the cafe in there. That might be too much too soon. However, if she brings up wanting to do something, that would be a good time to ask. Or if you two start becoming good friends, then ask. Hey, it's always easier to ask if a group of people are going. Then there's not so much pressure.

Good luck!

Capslock
 
  • #146
Whew! Thank you for reminding me!
Today, before I went home, I had a quick chat to her about the funfair, and then I went off.(I didnt wait for her, I just went home)
I sit close to her in one of my lessons(I actually sit next to her!!)
She and her freinds sit close to where I sit at lunchtime, but I dont talk to her
or her friends.(Just so she doesnt think Im smothering her)
We basicly ignore each other. 1 or 2 of her friends come to me and start being antisocial, but thay are not her real friiends, and Im not really bothered by what they are doing to me. Her real friends are quite nice to me though.
 
  • #147
Another question:
When should I go round her house and ask her if she wants to
come out to play at the park or something?
 
  • #148
after the fair when she knows you a bit better

good luck
 
  • #149
how are they being antisocial if they come up to you?
 
  • #150
Huh??? What do you mean, JustLikeApill?
 
  • #151
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
She is desperate to go, but her mom wont let her!!!!!!!
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
No worries, Im pretty sure she wants to be freinds with me,
so I will invite her round my house!
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Dino
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  • #152
I got her a present from france.
Ill pop it round her house later.
What do you guys think about this?
Dino
 
  • #153
a present from france hmm is it a frog
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go around give it to her my advice is to make it sound like youve got one for all your friends so she dosent think its wierd like end the sentance with i have to go know to give my other friend a present

you got me a present didnt you cause if not
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  • #154
No, I didnt get you a present.........
No, its not a frog, its a eifell tower keyring(made of metal)
and a small cudley toy that vibrated when you pull the string on it.
 
  • #155
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what nothing for me
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just joking and a vibrating toy you say sounds a bit wierd to me lol
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did you take the presents around yet
how are you going to lift a eifell tower key ring or is it not to scale i gess the french customs wouldnt let you bring a real size tower on the plane anyway lol
 
  • #156
Um, I didnt realize it was vibrating! I realised the day after I had bought it!
Its a cute toy though, Im sure she will love it!
 
  • #157
i bet the person in the shop looked at you weierd lol
did you go to parc astirix ive seen pictures of it and it looks awsome
 
  • #158
Sounds like a usual life situation you're revealing here. No experience have I whatsoever...
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If you want to play a flute, just ask her kindly, 'would you like to hear...' , not, 'let me play...', becuz that might be pushing it?
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Maybe when I grow older I'll understand. BTW, how old are you Starman?
 
  • #159
My mom says to back off and leave her alone completely. She thinks that this girl is not interested in me in a way I would like her to. When we are in school she is kind of OK but not interested in walking home together and then keeps turning to see where I am swinging her hair.....
Tried to give her this present but I was told twice she wasn't in. I'm just gutted that this is happening.
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My mom says to leave her alone and move on.... shall I listen to her?

Edit: Mom has wrote the above, she was writing like I said it, but this is what mom thinks, and I believe her. The second time, nobody was in, NOBODY was in.
 
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