You have friends here, that much is for sure. As far as other possible low opinions of you, no matter how good you are, how well adjusted, there will always be someone who just doesn't like you. Life is not fair like that! Ignore them, and appreciate your uniqueness. Just try to do your best, and let others think what they will, since they surely will.
Work at fixing the problems yourself: in the end, a Dr. can only help you with the process of learning to make the most of what you are - but it will always be you that has to do the work. Now you have an idea of what problems to concentrate on, you can prove to yourself that you are clever enough to get around whatever minor difficulties that present themselves. I agree with Tony, don't use your diagnosis as an excuse to be any less than all that you could be!