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    I have got my diagnosis. I ahve soemthign worse then dyspraxia.

    The verdict:

    I can not understand things well at all.
    When a teacher explains things,he/she basicly gives pieces of the puzzle which must be oput together. By the time I get to the 4th piece, the 1st one has fallen off, and I get confused and switch off.

    Thsi is true, it always happens to me.
    It stops me from learning, and I can only be taught in a certain way, it must be made sure that I fully understand each piece beofre the new piece is given, and it is essential to keep checking that allt he pieces are still there.

    I cannot read non verbal signs. If osmeone gives me a non-verbal message like giving me a look, I ownt be able to get the message and read it, and I will say soemthing stupid and it iwll put people off.
    That why I have no friends.

    I have balance difficulties. I cant ride a bike and I cant balanace.

    If osemone reads me a story, I cna only remeber main points form that story, I cant put the whole story in my own words.

    If I go without friends for another full year I iwll be severly depressed and I will probably be on anti-depressents all the time. I agree with this, I was VERY depressed at the end of last grade, and I cant take another year with 0 friends.

    There is the diagnosis.
    Very bad news.
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    I have forgotten soemthing.

    I have poor short term memeory, I cant remeebr what happed yesterday in school, I cant remeebr where I put soemhting.

    If mum sends me to do 3 things, I iwll do 1 then come back and ask her what else I have to do.

    Today, she told me to pay the postman and tell him where the money is(outside ina box) and 10 minutes later i phoned her on the way to work, because I forgot.
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    I don't know if it's ever bad news to get a definitive diagnosis, Dino. It sound like you at least have something to work with now. Also, while it all sounds like a lot of problems, something is working right in your brain because you write pretty well. And you like CPs!

    Anyway, it's good to know what you have to work on, and how. You shouldn't have to be depressed all the time, and it's a very good thing that they will take care of that, too.

    Cheer up! You're among friends here.

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    Instead of now knowing and saying I can't do this and I can't do that.. use it to find a way so that CAN DO things. Knowing what the weaknesses make it easier to learn your strengths and how to utilize them better to compensate for the weaknesses.

    If you sit around an wallow and now claim you have legitimate excuses for your problems because you have an 'official diagnosis', then you might as well not bother trying because you have already failed from the start.

    INSTEAD use the knowledge to make corrections and work out your problems. Example; If you forget things your supposed to do.. write it down. Sometimes a simple change can make a huge difference.



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    the first part of solving a problem is knowthing what the problem is right? you can't solve a problem if the question is blank. you have to see 3x(4x-4)=11 (3-4) before you can find the variable.

    that makes sense to me atleast lol. and anti-depressents aren't a big deal at all. i take 30 mg's of prozac everyday because my brain absorbs seratonin faster than i can produce it ( i have to external causes for depression ). alot of people thing you turn into a doped up zombie when you take anti-depressants, but that isn't true at all.

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    Its not that simple, Tony.

    My mind and brain is at fault, and it can only be improved/fixed if I see the Doctor and have treatment.
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    Sorry to hear that Dino. [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile_h_32.gif[/img] You do have friends here and you do remember terra forum...so that is a good thing. I also think your typing skills are not that bad. You do have here friends here as is evident and you have family for support. When you need to chipper up you can come post here...

    Do not worry about not remembering the whole story. I can not even remember a whole joke sometimes. Plus, who wants to remember everything about a dull story. [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile.gif[/img] If you remember the main points of a good story that is good enough.

    Best Wishes,
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    anti-depresants for those that truely need them are no big deal. its those who abuse them and for mis-diagnoses where the problems lie. make lists, keep growing your CPs, try making friends in your school and if that dont work out who cares? your amoung friends here on the forums not quite as good psycologically as the face to face kind but some interaction is better than none plus we all agree here that everyone of us on here is messed up(some of us more than others [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile_n_32.gif[/img] ) so there is less judgemental problems. dont focus on what you cant do. focus on what you can and youll do just fine Dino.

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