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    Starman I've been going through the same thing through my school years so I'm now being homeschooled. And now I gotta go through 6 months of therapy where I'll get diagnosed with probably similar things. I diagnosed myself with certain things. But the point is, I guess we've all been through hell like this before. And I HATE IT when people tell ya to ignore the mean people because it's impossible if ya hear it then it's gonna hurt you no matter what. Ignoring people also teaches you to be really antisocial and slowly your social skills fade and that's what's happened to me. Trust me, you don't want to be that way.
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    Not so long ago, we were doing rugby.
    I dotnlike it, and Im no good at it.
    So a bully decided, whenver I mess up, he will hit me withe the ball.
    Thats what happened.
    He hit me over 20 times.
    I had several bruises on my body.
    He hit me in the head, resulting in my filling getting knocked out.
    Then right at the end, he hit me right in the eye.
    I was screaming and crying, and not ONE person came and asked me if I was O.K. The teacher had to do it instead.
    He send the bully off, and he wasnt allowed to participate.
    I am now terrified of doing P.E, esspecially rugby.

    Im not at school today, too depressed,a nd I am crying now, I have been crying all day.
    I miss Bosnia. I miss all my freinds. I miss being happy.
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    I am gettign racially abused again.
    Another bully asked me if I came here on the back of a truck.
    And he called me a Bosnian B**** and told me to go back to Bosnia.
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    Starman,

    The majority of people contemplate suicide at some point in their lives. There are times in life when things look so black and there seems to be no hope. These are transitory moments in life.

    First off, there is no such thing as "normal". Your dispraxia should be easily treated by a speech pathologist to some degree. There is no shame in admitting to a weakness. Try to make up for it by concentrating on your strenghts. Hellen Keller is a great example.

    I recommend joining an internet forum that is for dispraxia. An internet search will give you some locations.

    I did this when I discovered my own ADD. Joining an internet forum allows you to see that your pain is not unique and others can offer support, comfort, advice and solutions.

    As for the bullies, my experience has shown that fighting back is the best solution. Even if you get beaten, predators do not like prey that is difficult to catch. This is the Law of the Jungle. When you fight back, they may still not like you, but they will have a certain amount of respect for you.

    All of the bullies that I came across were all talk. When I hit them, they never hit back and never bothered me again.

    Join a local martial arts center. Learn how to defend yourself. Most are very cheap on a montly basis and you might even find an instructor willing to take you on because of your bullies. If money is a problem, buy a book on martial arts. Bruce Lee was the best imo. Watch his films.

    For all of society's rules and regualtions, we are still animals and governed by the laws of the jungle. Upstanding citizens follow these rules, but the true beasts do not.

    Contact your school's principal and inform them of the problem. You have certain rights of protection from people like this. Even tell your parents. They could litigate if the school offers no solution.

    Normally, the biggest guy is not a bully. Stick around him.

    If the beatings continue, a kick or punch to the groin area will topple the biggest person anywhere.

    I was very shy before the bullies. When I confronted THEM, I came out of my shell. Living in fear is not a path I can recommend. I tried that.

    Be your own best friend first. Others will not like you if you do not like yourself. When this happens, others will be drawn to you. Some will even be the female flavor.

    Someone once said, "If you want a true friend, get a dog." They will always be there for you. They will listen for hours on end to your problems and never make fun of you. They will always love you.

    When you stand up for yourself, you will gain more self confidence than by any other measure.

    Good luck,
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    My parants bought a dog for me to help with the depresion.
    His name is Sam and hes a jack russel.
    However, it isnt helping that much.

    I am part of a martial arts centre, but it will be another 2-3 years ebofre I iwll be able to defend myself properly.

    My parants and the headmaster are regualy informed of the bullying, one person has already got exxpelled for not leaving me alone.
    My parants have been there to speak to him over 25 times now.

    If I punch him, I iwll be in a pool of blood on the floor.

    O.K, I am still crying now, I am trying to clam myslef down, anything from eating fruit to listening to classical music, but nothing is working.
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    ohhh man that reallly sucks, he should get in serious trouble for that like suspeneded or even expelled...
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    Quote Originally Posted by [b
    Quote[/b] (Starman @ Sep. 22 2004,9:05)]If I punch him, I iwll be in a pool of blood on the floor.
    Poke him in the eye's and kick him in the nads. Repeat if necessary.. Better yet buy steel toe boots. Karate will help you out a lot. As in the mental and physical part. I love martial arts!
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    Travis, come on! Let's not encourage Dino to inflict permanent injuries! Poking in the eyes is SERIOUS stuff.

    I do recomment a quick shot between the shorts, though, if it's trully warrented. Only as a VERY LAST RESORT. If you stand up the bully, sure, you may get beaten up....But aren't you getting beaten up anyway? Most of the time, if you just get in their face (no shots need to be thrown), they'll just walk off in a huff. You win.

    It really stinks to be the odd man out. I used to get stuffed in lockers all the time, hung up by my underwear (think they called that the galactic wedgie, or some such nonsense)...etc. Now no one would even think of trying that crap. First, we're all adults now. Second, well, just look at my avatar.
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