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    O.K,I am in floods of tears now.
    I can no longer cope.
    Everyone hates me in school I dont have friends, I dotn have anyone, I ahve been diagnosed with all this stuff, it is just too much.
    I odnt know what to do anymore, I want to have the courage to go and slash my wrists and die.
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    Slow down Starman. If you are really having trouble, then seek help. Find a professional who can help you with ways to cope. Counseling got my mother through some rough stuff, and my brother, too.
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    Dino, you gotta hang in there. Things may seem very dark and dismal right now...but it will get better. Might take some time but you can't make a snap decision that is PERMANENT when there are good things in life ahead of you. Life is always going to have rough spots. We ALL have them. And sometimes you do feel like quitting it all. But you just have to try to work through the problems as best you can.

    Life isn't easy but you have learn to cope with the problems. Getting hysterical only makes it worse. You have friends here and I'm sure you will make friends along the way where you are.

    You can always PM me if you want to talk about something.

    Take it one day at a time. Don't worry too much about tomorrow. Just concentrate on each day. There is much life has to offer. Its not all problems and misery. [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile.gif[/img]

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    I know you are having a rough time but things will get better. Some people even have it worse then you and they deal with it. It is not easy and by taking your life would be a BIG MISTAKE. You are not only thinking about yourself but you would truely hurt your family by doing so. I am sure the flooding is not helping your problems right now. I would seek some help to get things off your chest. Even though you do not have friends right now you do have family and us to help you along. [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile.gif[/img]

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    Dino,
    expand the focus, think about the stuff you like, what makes you you
    That's all that really matters, bro, it really is...
    You've started into successful windowsill growing, right

    I went through some serious dark times( I've lived on my own, some of that time on the street, since I was 16, I had to eat donuts that were thrown out at a local restaurant for a few months, there's much worse but it wouldn't be forum friendly), and I once thought as you do, it took a lot to get through it, but if I had to go through it again I would, and I'd hope I had the courage to do it over......

    PLEASE try to talk to someone; it really hurts me to know that our world has so many bad things in it, but you must'nt let the bad things force you to turn your back on the good things, I know from reading your posts around here that you do, indeed have good things in your life, focus on them and the rest will come, I won't lie and try to say it's easy, exactly, but it's possible....
    You seem to have a really good head on your shoulders, something that many people would wish for(alas, you either have it or you don't)
    All of the things you feel are lacking are things that you both can and will have, and you already have a few things (strong interest in nature, intelligence, humour, your friends here) that not many folks do....

    Please, please talk to someone.... I don't take any sort of counselling lightly or well, but even I have benefitted from words spoken by someone who knows and cares

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    The bad times never last forever, Dino! It sounds like you're dealing with depression among everything else. Depression always makes problems seem insurmountable, and like there is no relief in sight. I strongly recommend trying some anti-depressant medication and counseling if it really seems like it's intolerable. That's why they make that stuff, and you'd be one of millions of people to find relief that way. You don't deserve to be miserable.

    The fact that you've been diagnosed should be considered positive, because while it identifies problems, it more importantly gives a direction in fixing them. If nothing else, just understand that it DOES get better, and things WILL improve.

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    I have gone through times very similar to yours, only there was a tall bridge nvolved insteasd.... and now im on antidipressents








    Err but talk to your parents and tell them your problems. You havent been diaggnosed with something thats all that bad. You can live a happy and full life. Everyone has setbacks, but you just have to keep going.

    And for the kids at school tell them to SHOVE IT.
    Not as many people dislike you as you may think. And those who do hate you ar stupid and immature... id say to them GET OVER IT. there are going to be people who dislike you because your different. but they just havent reached a point in their lives in wich they are able to fully understand others problems.
    that makes no logic

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    if someone doesn't like you, screw them. you dont need them anyway [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile.gif[/img]

    i really suggest that you talk to a DR and get on prozac, and maybe even xanax.

    cutting is no way to solve your problems. every time you cut, you'r letting the people who upset you win.

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