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    THE DAFFODIL PRINCIPLE, for all those who grow CPs and sometimes get frustrated. I applaud you as the day may come when the only place any of us can will be able to find many of these species will be in private collections or picture books.

    THE DAFFODIL PRINCIPLE

    Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must come see the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but itwas a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. "I will come nextTuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third call.

    Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, "Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!"

    My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time,Mother."

    "Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I'm heading for home!" I assured her.

    "I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car."

    "How far will we have to drive?" "Just a few blocks," Carolyn said. "I'll drive. I'm used to this."

    After several minutes, I had to ask,"Where are we going? This isn't the way to the garage!"

    "We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of the daffodils." "Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around."

    "It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself
    if you miss this experience."

    After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign that read, "Daffodil Garden." We got out of the car and each took a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns- great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon, pink,saffron, and butter yellow.

    Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There were five acres of flowers.

    "But who has done this?" I asked Carolyn.

    "It's just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property. That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well kept A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house. On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking" was the headline.

    The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read.

    The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and very little brain."

    The third answer was, "Began in 1958."

    There it was, The Daffodil Principle.

    For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun - one bulb at a time - to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. Still, just planting one bulb at a time, year after year, had changed the world. This unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created something of indescribable magnificence, beauty, and inspiration.

    The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest
    principles of celebration. That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires onestep at a time - often just one baby-step at a time - and learning to love the doing; learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

    "It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn.

    "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

    My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way.

    "Start tomorrow," she said. It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this to use today?"

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    Maybe that should be the motto of NASC..."The Sarracenia Principle" [img]http://www.**********.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/new/smile.gif[/img]
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    Wow, it's weird that you have to travel to see daffodils. We have them everywhere in March - gardens, roadsides, anywhere!
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    I have daffodils. Many Americans have daffodils. Few have 50,000. Few have painstakingly worked for so long to be in a position to make a statement such as the one made by the lady who planted the daffodils one at a time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by [b
    Quote[/b] ]The second answer was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and very little brain."
    very little brain? what's that supposed to mean?
    Talk sense to a fool and he calls you foolish-Euripides
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    I don't really like daffodils. Alpha I think it means she thinks she is crazy now for doing this.

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    My interpretation would be that it was a labor of love to plant those daffodils one at a time. When people love what they are doing, they are focused and require very little thought. They've made up their mind to accomplish something and they are committed. In this woman't mind, she obviously chose to leave a legacy of daffodils behind for others to enjoy. No one can plant 50k in one year so she broke her project down to that which was more manageable and year by year she plodded along planting one by one.

    Daffodils aren't necessarily my favorite either Tre but that doesn't mean we can't admire her perseverance. There are those who believe CP growers are slightly crazy. It's all a matter of opinion... and respect. Something sorely lacking all too often in our society these days.

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