Hi cockatielmother and welcome to the discussion forums!
I'd say it is safe to assume, that many of us have travelled this route. As a matter of fact, in a freshly initiated topic by one of our teens, and to not "re-invent the wheel", here is a quote from what I wrote:
Hey Kirk, I did this as an essay for ya, way back when!
I got my first VFT as a pre-teen and promptly killed it. The summer before freshman year in college I got another. My buddy accidently knocked it to the floor and it was toast. Years later, while working at a tropical fish wholesaler, I got another and put it in a plant tank, growing it terrarium style. It seemed to be doing well - until it flowered. It immediately died. Years later, I bought another, along with a "Purple Pitcher Plant" & "Tropical Pitcher Plant". It took me 3 months to kill them - first the VFT, of course!
I swore off CP's as being too difficult for me, until 2 summers ago, when I saw an array of VFT's at Home Depot. I made an impulse purchase and a vow to do whatever it took to keep it alive for more than 3 months - which I did. This time my well-documented stream experiment killed it and others.
I unwittingly violated every rule about CP cultivation possible - water, air circulation, dormancy....
Anyways, 2 years.
Here are some of the plants that are easy to grow - so long as one uses appropriate water (distilled or rain or RO or Deionized), peat, long-fibred sphagnum moss (LFS), and sand (pool supply places).
VFT's really ARE easy. Drosera: spatulata, capensis, scorpiodes, binata, filiformis, adelae.....
Sarracenia: purpurea, flava, rubra, leucophylla, alata....
Pinguicula: moranensis, 'Sethos', John Rizzi, George Sargeant, potosciensis. luscitanica, ehleresiae, esseriana, primuliflora....
Nepenthes: ventricosa, ventrata, sanguinea, cochinea, miranda....
Utricularia: sandersonni, livida, bisquamata, subluata, praelonga, prehenselis, paulinae, .....
Access? Some are available at garden centers. Many are available from us'ns! We'd be happy to palm off, ahem, share with you!
Environment writer? Hmmm.... interesting. I'm an Environmental Scientist.