Jimmy - I like to keep things simple - use fine tweezers, grab a stamen (down on the skinny part - the filament) & rub the end with pollen (anther) on each of the stigmas. Here's a simple flower pic to help. The flower pics on the web typically show simple flowers but many of our CPs are slight variations on the theme. The stigmas on many dews are branched into many parts - here's one where the stigma looks somewhat like deer antlers. In your last flower pic, your's come out to the side looking like translucent clubs.