not taking any responsibility for your own poor choices..
its always someone else's fault, not your own.
and if someone calls you on your poor choice, call them names instead of admitting that they might be right..
childish you say? yes, it is..
just be a man and admit you made a very poor choice to order Nepenthes in January.
you took a huge risk, and the result is not at all surprising.
its completely your fault.
blaming the seller is just a cop-out..