I just got my first flytrap from **********.com and it arrived in excellent condition. However, about 3 of the traps are dead (they're black) and all of the traps are shut. I know I'm supposed to wait for the closed traps to open, but should i cut off the dead ones? If so, where should I cut them off at? Also, the pot it came in has a dish at the bottom of it. Is this dish attached to the pot? It seems stuck. And do I just put water in this dish? Thanks for the help!