Thanks for all the great advice!
As grotesk as it may sound I think that I will try pulling the legs off the daddy longlegs before I feed them to see if that helps to keep the leaves from dieing.
As for being a plant person I have to give most of the credit to my wife, she takes care of all the plants exept for my VFT. The plants we have know don't need extra light, but I do have artificial light for my snake cage, I keep the VFT next to it so hopefully they will share the light, we'll just have to wait and see.
So far I have collected enough rain water to use for watering my VFT, but I'm still not shure on how to, there are some small holes in the bottom of the pot and I have that sitting in a dish with about 1 1/2'' of water, will it soak enough water up threw the holes? Should I still mist it like is done with the rest of the plants?
What advise do you have on that?