Here's the bottom line eou812---if you're going to be an active participant in this forum, you are going to have to treat others with respect and conduct yourself in an appropriate manner. There are quite a few 13 year olds on this forum who are able to do so, so it isnt impossible. So far you have spurned the careful advice of multiple members each saying the same thing, which probably means that it is something of very high importance. mostly
1) the trading grounds that you have setup are (yes i will say it) ludicrous---it's almost the equivalent of trading a paint by numbers painting set for a painting by Picasso.
2) you need to gain more experience in your CP cultivation techniques. you say that you've been growing carnivorous plants for about a year now. Good! but let's see that growlist of yours, what have you been growing and for how long? like glider said, growing bombproof plants for a year does not show any skill in CP cultivation. You've got those plants down? Good! then move on to something slightly more difficult. some plants you might want to try are: N. singalana, N. sanguinea, U. longifolia, U. dichomata, D. slackii, D. hamiltonii---then even more difficult plants such as N. talangensis, N. lowii, U. nephrophylla, tuberous dews, etc etc. by the time you've reached that last group of plants, you'll be ready to tackle a ceph or a heli.
3) If you're really that desperate for a ceph or a heli, why not buy one? or ask your parents to buy you one? Christmas is right around the corner. $30 bucks is much cheaper than many video games these days. Plus, i feel that plants that are bought with my own money hold a very special place in my heart, especially if they're expensive---not because of their value, but because of the amount of work that i had to do in order to raise that money and therefore, i take much better care of them.
and finally, if you are not able to conduct yourself as an adult, then you're going to be treated as a child. and last time i checked, no children were allowed in the forums.