possible solution is to explicitly state that you arent doing unsolicited ROAKs on your growlist---that way, you can point them there.
i have seen growers get bugged when they post first and foremost in their picture threads that they do not have divisions for trade.....some ppl just have no manners which is why i dont feel bad verbally kicking them in the nutz.....hell ive seen some not onlly have balls to tell a grower they must sell a division to them but also try and dictate at what price the division of a rare plant should be sold....
some ppls kids are only alive cause its illegal to push them into traffic.....