I would be very careful about removing "Highland Nepenthes" from the theme of this "discussion". Once you open this up to terrarium plants or plants in general it is over quickly.
There are HUNDREDS of published trails/books/experiments from good sources (NASA, commercial growers - who only care about health/growth rate as it equals $$$). Aeroponics, hydroponics, aquaculture and the like are all very well documented and many references give ranges for specific gases in these setups. Depending on what is being grown some are setup with to add oxygen while others add CO2.
They are not doing this because it is an opinion, it is from trial and error over time. You can even watch documentaries on TV about these farms so no reading is required if you prefer, many of the good ones are being done in the UK.
Flushing a pot, will increase airflow into the medium, this is science. Look it up and test it out yourself some of these tests can be a lot of fun. Now if that air is better in quality than what air was in the medium the plant will be better off. But if that new air for whatever reason is worse the plant may suffer. This is where pot type/size/medium/humidity/ect would come into play. Net pots, clay pots, plastic pots would all play a huge factor in the results you would get. Flushing small net pot for instance would have much less of an impact than flushing a large plastic pot. Flushing charcoal is actually a bad thing due to the how charcoal functions in mediums. This is probably the reason for the "myths", you can not forget the 90 other factors of your growing area and just pull a single line out of someones post and reply with "your wrong". Those 90 other factors may very well be why it works just fine for them and not you.
Here is where you have to think, would you flush a bog plant? I'd think not, they would not like that. Few times a year, they might like. Would you flush a rainforest plant during the rainy season, why yes. How about flushing during the dry season? Well no.
As to the original question, since I have had Neps growing for years (seedling to "adult", 10+ years) without being "flushed" or even watered under my growing conditions flushing is just a waste of my time. They get repotted but not flushed. I do however mist them weekly, mainly to keep the dust off
. See above thou, your 90 other factors may require flushing.