I have been growing this lovely lady since last summer, I just can't seem to please her. And no, I don't think it's just because she's a woman. I mean, I can't seem to get the lighting and watering thing perfect for her. She isn't turning any of her deep purples and she has REALLY slowed down on her pitchering. Should I maybe trim her back a ways to encourage new growth?? I know someone out there has this species nailed down, advice would be great.