A few people have asked what happened to me so figured i'd post an update real fast. Im currently going through a divorce and havent had much time(or desire) for the internet.. Im not dead, just havent really been around.. In the process of moving in with my family until I can find an apartment, and my plants so far are still with my ex husband. Ugh. Its going to be a long process, so dont know how much ill be around on here.. Just letting everyone know, im very sorry to of disappeared on some people..